Tuesday, May 8, 2018
Just a Thought: The Used People Part 2
Just a Thought: The Used People Part 2: I left off in my last post about certain types people who are total Narcissist. Both young men and young women do not understand who th...
The Used People Part 2
I left off in my last post about certain types people who are total Narcissist. Both young men and young women do not understand who they are dealing with.
When people are in a relationship, that relationship should be equatable. But today's society allows for young couples to use and abuse each other without even knowing what they are doing. Families have become so disconnected that young teens and later teens have no idea of what Love is, Faithfulness, Respect. Most think being called a Bitch is normal behavior. Why? Because it is all over their Social News feeds and everyone uses that term to describe someone they are suppose to Love. Calling someone a Bitch when you address them is total disrespect. "No matter what your favor Rap song says" Having someone use you for Sex or Money and then brush you off, is their way of saying you do not matter. You have no worth to them other than to provide the some temporary comfort. All while feeding their Narcissistic desires. But the harm really comes to you. You begin to question what you have done wrong and trying understand your own self worth. Trying everything you can to satisfy the person that is in reality harming you. At a very young teen age, your brain is full of feelings or emotions and you try everyday to understand them. First off you cannot buy someones Love or Affection. That is something that is earned. And if they do not earn it you do not give it. You have to ask yourself a hypothetical question. Is this the way I want someone to treat my children when I have them? If you can answer that question then you will have the answers to the questions that are running through your brain right now.
Everyone deserves to have a relationship where things are equal and reciprocated. Never question your worth, your looks your style, your habits or actions. Because you are just fine the way you are. Do not let someone tell you to change and serve them and then lower yourself to being called names and running through your money trying to save something that was never there in the first place.
Be yourself, Live Life, Love Life, but most of all Love Yourself, and you will be able to navigate anything and you will find out you will be able to accomplish anything.
The world is filled with Predators, do not settle for less than you deserve.
When people are in a relationship, that relationship should be equatable. But today's society allows for young couples to use and abuse each other without even knowing what they are doing. Families have become so disconnected that young teens and later teens have no idea of what Love is, Faithfulness, Respect. Most think being called a Bitch is normal behavior. Why? Because it is all over their Social News feeds and everyone uses that term to describe someone they are suppose to Love. Calling someone a Bitch when you address them is total disrespect. "No matter what your favor Rap song says" Having someone use you for Sex or Money and then brush you off, is their way of saying you do not matter. You have no worth to them other than to provide the some temporary comfort. All while feeding their Narcissistic desires. But the harm really comes to you. You begin to question what you have done wrong and trying understand your own self worth. Trying everything you can to satisfy the person that is in reality harming you. At a very young teen age, your brain is full of feelings or emotions and you try everyday to understand them. First off you cannot buy someones Love or Affection. That is something that is earned. And if they do not earn it you do not give it. You have to ask yourself a hypothetical question. Is this the way I want someone to treat my children when I have them? If you can answer that question then you will have the answers to the questions that are running through your brain right now.
Everyone deserves to have a relationship where things are equal and reciprocated. Never question your worth, your looks your style, your habits or actions. Because you are just fine the way you are. Do not let someone tell you to change and serve them and then lower yourself to being called names and running through your money trying to save something that was never there in the first place.
Be yourself, Live Life, Love Life, but most of all Love Yourself, and you will be able to navigate anything and you will find out you will be able to accomplish anything.
The world is filled with Predators, do not settle for less than you deserve.
Monday, May 7, 2018
Just a Thought: The Used People
Just a Thought: The Used People: Kind of a strange name for an Opinion Piece, but is is apt for this one. I have ran into people who wish to see the best of hum...
The Used People
Kind of a strange name for an Opinion Piece, but is is apt for this one.
I have ran into people who wish to see the best of humanity in everyone. But in most cases you will learn (Sometimes the hard way) that is just a fantasy. Most of your thoughts are just that, your thoughts, none of which is backed up by substance. Most of it is backed by lies and deception. None of it is back by the love of a person, just the thought of a fantasy of love given freely from that person. We have people in this world who just use others to get ahead and to keep themselves just above the waterline and not drown. But the people they run through are doing the same thing, they are the ones holding the other persons head above water. But what does this accomplish? Nothing. These people will use you for everything you have and your Heart will give it to them. These people will convince you they have a Heart and a Sole and really care for you but in essence they really do not. They just care for themselves. This is the true meaning of Narcissist. (Narcissism is the pursuit of gratification from vanity or egotistic admiration of one's own attributes. The term originated from Greek mythology, where the young Narcissus fell in love with his own image reflected in a pool of water. Narcissism is a concept in psychoanalytic theory, which was popularly introduced in Sigmund Freud's essay On Narcissism (1914). The American Psychiatric Association has listed the classification narcissistic personality disorder in its Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) since 1968, drawing on the historical concept of megalomania.
Narcissism is also considered a social or cultural problem. It is a factor in trait theory used in various self-report inventories of personality such as the Millon Clinical Multiaxial Inventory. It is one of the three dark triadic personality traits (the others being psychopathy and Machiavellianism). Except in the sense of primary narcissism or healthy self-love, narcissism is usually considered a problem in a person's or group's relationships with self and others. Narcissism is not the same as egocentrism.)
This long explanation is an accurate one. These types of people pray on the weak and usually win. Cult leaders use this trait to their advantage to gain followers and then rape them of their money their body and their spirit. Making the person feel empty and unwanted and unworthy. When all along they have done nothing wrong other than fall into a trap that many others have fallen into.
One way to separate yourself from this is to pull your self away from the toxic people in your life and then work on your own self esteem. 9 out of 10 of individuals who fall for this type of behavior have nothing wrong with them physically, but for some reason, "back by scientific research" their brains are where the problem lies. These problems are usually started by someone grooming them at a young age with empty promises and loads of bullshit.
What you have to do is to take a long look at yourself and then ask your self some questions (Do I deserve any of this treatment that I have been given?) (Am I better than this?) (Why do I continue to give and never receive love, respect and adulation?)Look at yourself in the mirror and ask your self these questions and observe yourself answering these questions and you will then realize you are better than this and you deserve better than what you have gotten. Self worth is the key. Individual thinking is the answer.
One of my favorite sayings is one I wrote years ago:
Live Life Love Live, But Most of all Love Yourself and You Can Achieve Anything.
I have ran into people who wish to see the best of humanity in everyone. But in most cases you will learn (Sometimes the hard way) that is just a fantasy. Most of your thoughts are just that, your thoughts, none of which is backed up by substance. Most of it is backed by lies and deception. None of it is back by the love of a person, just the thought of a fantasy of love given freely from that person. We have people in this world who just use others to get ahead and to keep themselves just above the waterline and not drown. But the people they run through are doing the same thing, they are the ones holding the other persons head above water. But what does this accomplish? Nothing. These people will use you for everything you have and your Heart will give it to them. These people will convince you they have a Heart and a Sole and really care for you but in essence they really do not. They just care for themselves. This is the true meaning of Narcissist. (Narcissism is the pursuit of gratification from vanity or egotistic admiration of one's own attributes. The term originated from Greek mythology, where the young Narcissus fell in love with his own image reflected in a pool of water. Narcissism is a concept in psychoanalytic theory, which was popularly introduced in Sigmund Freud's essay On Narcissism (1914). The American Psychiatric Association has listed the classification narcissistic personality disorder in its Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) since 1968, drawing on the historical concept of megalomania.
Narcissism is also considered a social or cultural problem. It is a factor in trait theory used in various self-report inventories of personality such as the Millon Clinical Multiaxial Inventory. It is one of the three dark triadic personality traits (the others being psychopathy and Machiavellianism). Except in the sense of primary narcissism or healthy self-love, narcissism is usually considered a problem in a person's or group's relationships with self and others. Narcissism is not the same as egocentrism.)
This long explanation is an accurate one. These types of people pray on the weak and usually win. Cult leaders use this trait to their advantage to gain followers and then rape them of their money their body and their spirit. Making the person feel empty and unwanted and unworthy. When all along they have done nothing wrong other than fall into a trap that many others have fallen into.
One way to separate yourself from this is to pull your self away from the toxic people in your life and then work on your own self esteem. 9 out of 10 of individuals who fall for this type of behavior have nothing wrong with them physically, but for some reason, "back by scientific research" their brains are where the problem lies. These problems are usually started by someone grooming them at a young age with empty promises and loads of bullshit.
What you have to do is to take a long look at yourself and then ask your self some questions (Do I deserve any of this treatment that I have been given?) (Am I better than this?) (Why do I continue to give and never receive love, respect and adulation?)Look at yourself in the mirror and ask your self these questions and observe yourself answering these questions and you will then realize you are better than this and you deserve better than what you have gotten. Self worth is the key. Individual thinking is the answer.
One of my favorite sayings is one I wrote years ago:
Live Life Love Live, But Most of all Love Yourself and You Can Achieve Anything.
Monday, April 30, 2018
Just a Thought: The View from A Far
Just a Thought: The View from A Far: I guess I have written about every subject going on the our great country in the last couple of years. I tried to use language easy to ...
The View from A Far
I guess I have written about every subject going on the our great country in the last couple of years. I tried to use language easy to understand and points of view easy to interpret. But I guess I have failed in this repetitious way of thinking. Getting to the news of the day I realize that the media narrative that anyone who shows up at our border gets a free pass into this country. Damn the Laws and Damn what the American people think and Damn the amount of money that flows out the door when this happens. And no matter what you think the American people will suffer from this lawlessness. We have become a Nation stretched beyond our resources. First off if they wanted to seek asylum they should have done so in Mexico, who by the way is one of the countries the U.N. recognizes as a country that can accept Asylum seekers. People from Honduras have much more in common with Mexico than the U.S. . So ask yourself, why would they want to track all the way to the U.S.. Well I will be blunt and tell you. Free food, free housing, free medical care, and so on. These are things we do not even give our returning Vets. But somehow we can make money available for this. And for me the Lawyers that are going down there to the border and coaching them on how to game the system, like getting married at the border, and so on should be found and jailed for breaking Federal Law. One gentlemen of Mexican Heritage even got caught trying to bring in 600 thousand dollars across with him. Immigration is accomplished by the Host Country. But most of all the Laws of that Host Country. (One Mexican TV Host stated that this country has become and is the most hostile country in the world to immigrants.) My question then would be why are you coming then? As you can see that when a country allows others to break the laws because the you then begin investing into the original countries problem. Which are now starting to show up here.
This is nothing more than a trick used by the Democratic Party to shore up their voting ranks. This country has become a harsh joke on the world, and the only thing that keeps us in check is this President that Democrats hate that will lead this country from the point of strength rather than from a point of weakness.
Example:
Illegal immigration is the illegal entry of a person or a group of persons across a country's border, in a way that violates the immigration laws of the destination country, with the intention to remain in the country.
Illegal immigration, as well as immigration in general, is overwhelmingly upward, from a poorer to a richer country.[1] Living in another country illegally includes a variety of restrictions, as well as the risk of being detained and deported or of facing other sanctions.[2]
In terms of the number of Illegal immigrants living in a country, India hosts the largest number for any country in the world, with illegal immigrants from Bangladesh alone numbering 20 million.[3][4]
Asylum seekers who were denied asylum may face impediment to expulsion, for example if the home country refuses to receive the person or if new asylum reasons occur after the decision. In some countries or cases, these people are considered as illegal immigrants, and in others, they may get a temporary residence permit, for example with reference to the principle of non-refoulement in the international Refugee Convention. The European Court of Human Rights, referring to the European Convention on Human Rights, has shown in a number of indicative judgments that there are enforcement barriers to expulsion to certain countries, for example due to the risk of torture.[5]
We set back in our chairs at night and laugh at Europe because we are seeing it going up in flames and being taken over by a culture that did not come there to integrate. We should be ashamed of ourselves because we are not ones to talk about anyone. Just remember the Hondura Flags being waved while the cross the border to become so called integrated as American Citizens.
It is strangely absurd to suppose that a million of human beings, collected together, are not under the same moral laws which bind each of them separately.
Thomas Jefferson
A people who chose security over liberty will receive neither nor deserve either.
Benjamin Franklin
Government is instituted for the common good; for the protection, safety, prosperity, and happiness of the people; and not for profit, honor, or private interest of any one man, family, or class of men; therefore, the people alone have an incontestable, unalienable, and indefeasible right to institute government; and to reform, alter, or totally change the same, when their protection, safety, prosperity, and happiness require it.
John Adams
This is nothing more than a trick used by the Democratic Party to shore up their voting ranks. This country has become a harsh joke on the world, and the only thing that keeps us in check is this President that Democrats hate that will lead this country from the point of strength rather than from a point of weakness.
Example:
Illegal immigration is the illegal entry of a person or a group of persons across a country's border, in a way that violates the immigration laws of the destination country, with the intention to remain in the country.
Illegal immigration, as well as immigration in general, is overwhelmingly upward, from a poorer to a richer country.[1] Living in another country illegally includes a variety of restrictions, as well as the risk of being detained and deported or of facing other sanctions.[2]
In terms of the number of Illegal immigrants living in a country, India hosts the largest number for any country in the world, with illegal immigrants from Bangladesh alone numbering 20 million.[3][4]
Asylum seekers who were denied asylum may face impediment to expulsion, for example if the home country refuses to receive the person or if new asylum reasons occur after the decision. In some countries or cases, these people are considered as illegal immigrants, and in others, they may get a temporary residence permit, for example with reference to the principle of non-refoulement in the international Refugee Convention. The European Court of Human Rights, referring to the European Convention on Human Rights, has shown in a number of indicative judgments that there are enforcement barriers to expulsion to certain countries, for example due to the risk of torture.[5]
We set back in our chairs at night and laugh at Europe because we are seeing it going up in flames and being taken over by a culture that did not come there to integrate. We should be ashamed of ourselves because we are not ones to talk about anyone. Just remember the Hondura Flags being waved while the cross the border to become so called integrated as American Citizens.
It is strangely absurd to suppose that a million of human beings, collected together, are not under the same moral laws which bind each of them separately.
Thomas Jefferson
A people who chose security over liberty will receive neither nor deserve either.
Benjamin Franklin
Government is instituted for the common good; for the protection, safety, prosperity, and happiness of the people; and not for profit, honor, or private interest of any one man, family, or class of men; therefore, the people alone have an incontestable, unalienable, and indefeasible right to institute government; and to reform, alter, or totally change the same, when their protection, safety, prosperity, and happiness require it.
John Adams
Monday, April 9, 2018
Just a Thought: In the End
Just a Thought: In the End: For the most part in my life I have had a somewhat positive outlook on the future of my country and the safety of my children and grand...
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