The Used People Part 2

     I left off in my last post about certain types people who are total Narcissist. Both young men and young women do not understand who they are dealing with.

     When people are in a relationship, that relationship should be equatable. But today's society allows for young couples to use and abuse each other without even knowing what they are doing. Families have become so disconnected that young teens and later teens have no idea of what Love is, Faithfulness, Respect. Most think being called a Bitch is normal behavior. Why? Because it is all over their Social News feeds and everyone uses that term to describe someone they are suppose to Love. Calling someone a Bitch when you address them is total disrespect. "No matter what your favor Rap song says" Having someone use you for Sex or Money and then brush you off, is their way of saying you do not matter. You have no worth to them other than to provide the some temporary comfort. All while feeding their Narcissistic desires. But the harm really comes to you. You begin to question what you have done wrong and trying understand your own self worth. Trying everything you can to satisfy the person that is in reality harming you. At a very young teen age, your brain is full of feelings or emotions and you try everyday to understand them. First off you cannot buy someones Love or Affection. That is something that is earned. And if they do not earn it you do not give it. You have to ask yourself a hypothetical question. Is this the way I want someone to treat my children when I have them? If you can answer that question then you will have the answers to the questions that are running through your brain right now.

     Everyone deserves to have a relationship where things are equal and reciprocated. Never question your worth, your looks your style, your habits or actions. Because you are just fine the way you are. Do not let someone tell you to change and serve them and then lower yourself to being called names and running through your money trying to save something that was never there in the first place. 

    Be yourself, Live Life, Love Life, but most of all Love Yourself, and you will be able to navigate anything and you will find out you will be able to accomplish anything. 

The world is filled with Predators, do not settle for less than you deserve.