Just a Thought: Descending into madness

Just a Thought: Descending into madness:       This Blog is a direct result of a true and on going situation with Kids involved. You know grandkids. I have never been one who likes ...

Descending into madness

      This Blog is a direct result of a true and on going situation with Kids involved. You know grandkids. I have never been one who likes confrontation when it comes to grandkids, but somehow others do not want to grow up and act their age. I know there are a lot of grandparents out there who are grappling with parties that thrive on misery and confrontation. In the long run the people that get hurt are the children, because of the bitterness or the downright hatefulness of the others  involved. Someone told me to kill them with kindness. But I can tell you there are some people that will never work with. I have researched this at great length and there is no real answer to how and fix this. Someone is going to suffer the inability to see the children. My first question is what are they afraid of? Second why play the victim in all situations regarding the children. Maybe it is a lack of self esteem that controls their brain function. 

     The fact that this takes place all over this country because of blended families is sad but the adults have to start to act like adults, because if you act like a victim then your children will do so as well. And their integration into society will be much more difficult. Most of them will never make it and will live at home until they are 30 plus. But then comes along the really genius parent that has all the answers to every question. yet no experience but pertains to have all of the knowledge to take on the world. And those are the ones who bug the shit out of me the most. For one simple reason, they will never listen to anything but themselves and OH except for that original person who keeps the confrontation  going in the first place. There is no substitute for life experience, no matter what they say. 

     Bottom line here is people need to act like adults the time for being a child when you are a parent or grandparent is over. The people that you are hurting are the children. One thing you will find out is that when children grow up and find out the truth they have a very unique way of making you pay for the time you took away from the interactions with other grandparents or parents because you were such a good lair at the time. Kids have an uncanny ability to figure this out. 

     There is nothing more beautiful than to see the wonderment in a childs eyes, but there is nothing more disturbing to see fear in a child eyes due to vicious lies being told to them. How sad have we become to allow ourselves to get to this point. So to all the parents and grandparents out there all I can say is  keep your chin up and fight your way through it because the kids are worth it. 

Just a Thought: A version of Mama's family.

Just a Thought: A version of Mama's family.:      I am somewhat perplexed at how family treats their fellow family members during an upsetting situation. The word Family has become a ...

A version of Mama's family.

     I am somewhat perplexed at how family treats their fellow family members during an upsetting situation. The word Family has become a tattered word. Because several families are now from two homes and the children have to deal with the consequences in the long run. One reason  would be because one or the other parent has an agenda. But also the only people that serve the repercussions are the children. They will go their whole lives not knowing one or the other parent because the lies are so bad on one side that they become believable after being repeated so many times. It's kind of an indoctrination of sorts. Children have a hard enough time growing up these days without parents acting like children themselves. I feel for all the fathers and the mothers out there that have to deal with that one partner that is so bitter that they have to slandered the other person to the point like some Asinine ranting PIG. 

     I think for a child to heal from a traumatic event, is for the parents to put aside the difference long enough for that to happen. But with some it seems to be too hard. There is a grain of stupidity bread into them that never goes away. And that is why the children will never have a chance in the first place. And in the long run you have given them the same learned response to everything just as the parents before. Somehow that trend has to be broken. The only way to get families back together in this country is to put aside the differences an make the children the most important reason to get along. 

     I wished I could say these things can and will happen, but the bitterness from one sided family members is so strong the cycle is damn near too hard to break. For the sake of the kids just "pull your head out of the sand long enough for them to make up there own minds on what to believe. Children have an uncanny ability to see through the bullshit. And the people who fill their heads full of that bullshit know this and that is the reason they keep that long distance between them. 

Just a Thought: New age of Obama

Just a Thought: New age of Obama:      Somehow I think you would have to be blind to not see what has been going on in your country, but that is apparently what is happening....

New age of Obama

     Somehow I think you would have to be blind to not see what has been going on in your country, but that is apparently what is happening. I have watched this man dispatch with the laws of this country like a spoiled child. And when he gives his press conferences he blames everyone , but himself. The fact that we are going to lose Iraq again to Terrorist does not suprise me at all, the fact we are allowing hundreds of thousands of illegals cross the border does not surprise me either. Why you might ask? Because he wants to bring this Government to it's knees. He wants to break the back of the free market to replace it with a one size fits all economy. And guess what? YOU have set back at just watched. Every time I write about this no one responds with a fix or any anger or passion for what this country once stood for. It is pathetic. 

     The southern border problem became one, when he screamed out the words Blanket Amnesty. Now people would have you believe it is because of the circumstances in their own countries. But that is not it at all. The plain and simple fact is they know once they cross that border they will have a check and housing and medical care waiting for them at your expense. And we are not talking about just for a short term. This then becomes a generational problem. But they do not care because they will let your children go hungry and your families go without a job and then guilt you into feeling sorry for people breaking the law and pointing out that it has now become our problem. While all along forgetting you even exist. 

     Keep silent and you will cease to be living in the country you use to know and you will be living in a third world country you only hear about on the news. So if you do not care the only thing I can say is you reap what you sow. 

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