A version of Mama's family.

     I am somewhat perplexed at how family treats their fellow family members during an upsetting situation. The word Family has become a tattered word. Because several families are now from two homes and the children have to deal with the consequences in the long run. One reason  would be because one or the other parent has an agenda. But also the only people that serve the repercussions are the children. They will go their whole lives not knowing one or the other parent because the lies are so bad on one side that they become believable after being repeated so many times. It's kind of an indoctrination of sorts. Children have a hard enough time growing up these days without parents acting like children themselves. I feel for all the fathers and the mothers out there that have to deal with that one partner that is so bitter that they have to slandered the other person to the point like some Asinine ranting PIG. 

     I think for a child to heal from a traumatic event, is for the parents to put aside the difference long enough for that to happen. But with some it seems to be too hard. There is a grain of stupidity bread into them that never goes away. And that is why the children will never have a chance in the first place. And in the long run you have given them the same learned response to everything just as the parents before. Somehow that trend has to be broken. The only way to get families back together in this country is to put aside the differences an make the children the most important reason to get along. 

     I wished I could say these things can and will happen, but the bitterness from one sided family members is so strong the cycle is damn near too hard to break. For the sake of the kids just "pull your head out of the sand long enough for them to make up there own minds on what to believe. Children have an uncanny ability to see through the bullshit. And the people who fill their heads full of that bullshit know this and that is the reason they keep that long distance between them.